ADVICE PLEASE HELP!?!?!!!!?

authorjacktime14 Mar 2010categoryportal.gzgq.com
  • im 18 I split with my ex about 5 months ago now due to us not working always argueing and him saying he had fell out of love with me and an unwanted preganancy which then resulted in a misscarriage.. And we do not talk anymore and havnt since... i have a new boyfriend, but am finding it hard to get over my ex I always think about him, Sometimes when im with my new bf, and i feel so mean =[.. he was my first love and we still see each other all the time, everytime my ex sees me he looks once untill i see then he will speed past or look the other way, My brother and my ex are still best friends and my ex will often come and park outside and wait for my brother .. The other day however my ex was parked outside, and because my bedroom window is at the frount of the house he could clearly see in it, and see me in my bedroom.. I saw him look up as my brother came into the house then when he realised i saw he put his cap over his face abit and pretended to be asleep almost.. Do you think this sounds like he did this to stop himself from looking!?..


  • Sweetie, you must know that he's working through this just like you are? He thinks about you, and he's sad too. Loss is never easy. Go slow, take it easy on yourself.


  • Yes. And your conscience is your friend.


  • yeaa.. b/c if thiis was ur 1st love that most likely it was his... his workiin through this liike you... maybe u guys should talk and c how the other is feeling....


  • It is always hard getting over split ups but you need to look forward to new things and go out with other people, only you can help this.


  • You want my honest advice: (1) I think you maybe rushed too soon into a new relationship before you'd completely recovered from the old relationship, and everything you wrote indicates to me you know this; (2) there's something that, from your question, I can see you obviously know in your heart but are having trouble coming right out and dealing with: you know that your old relationship did not work out. Now, obviously, it was a serious, serious relationship, and it will take a long time to get over it. You need a little time for YOU. You won't feel better jumping too fast into a relationship you're not ready for, and even if there are things you miss about the old guy, you know it's part of the past now, and you know you have to let it go.

    Like the other person here said: just take it slow and give yourself some time to heal.







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