My girlfriend pregant?

authorjacktime10 Mar 2010categoryportal.gzgq.com
  • my girlfriend got pregant and shes only 13 and im 14.what do i do i got a job at jason deli but i got to go to school to. and i cant be whilling to pay sooo much money for the baby but i will. what i do?


  • If you weren't ready for a baby, you weren't ready for sex. What the heck were you thinking? Now, sit down and tell your parents. And now that the deed is done, there are no take backs. An abortion doesn't make you "unpregnate" it makes you a parent to a dead child. But you do need to finish school. Perhaps adoption is your best choice. And from now on, keep your dick in your hand until your ready to be a daddy, and then use protection!


  • I respect the fact that your trying to step up to be a good dad, more men should be like you! But Hun sometimes the best thing that you can do for the one you love the most is let them go. Your to young to be a father, what about school and a career. You can't feed and buy clothes and medical and schooling for a child with no education. It's an expensive world! I know that's not a good reason for giving up your child, but imagine the kind of life it can have with working , loving parents who have a nice house and yard and have always wanted a blessing like that only couldn't get it right. I was adopted, I've also met my Biological parents. And they are great people. I don't at all hold the decision they made against them, cause I've had a great life and am now married with my own children. My children know who they are and they are still very much a big part of my life. It's a tough choice, and only you and your girlfriends to make... But you should at least think about it.


  • Your only 14 you can't provide this baby with what heshe needs for the rest of their life ask your parents for help.


  • should of though about this before having unprotected sex!
    It needs to be confirmed and you both need to sit down with both of your parents and tell them ASAP!


  • Ugh! I can't stand when people condemn someone for posting a question like this. Obviously, you now know at least one of the risks associated with having sex.

    What you need to do is have it confirmed by a doctor that your girlfriend is pregnant. Once it is confirmed, you should sit down with her parents and your parents and discuss your options. Yes, it will most likely be an awkward, difficult, and unpleasant conversation, but what's most important now is the baby. You are right that you need to finish school. So does your girlfriend. You should consider all the options available to you. If you guys decide to keep the baby, are the parents willing to help. Raising a child is expensive and time-consuming (but rewarding too). Your parents and her parents need to be involved because the two of you are too young to be able to support a child on your own. I respect the fact that you have a job and are willing to step up to the plate and take responsibility for your actions. The best thing you can do right now is be emotionally supportive to your girlfriend. Be there to help her make decisions, and if she decides to keep the baby, be there for her through the pregnancy. Be there for your child too once she gives birth.

    Good luck. You're in a tough spot.


  • Well you should of not been having sex. And it is the proper thing to do to take care of her and the baby. You will learn from your mistakes now I hope, good luck.


  • well you're doing the right thing by getting a job. and you do need to finish school. so does she. just tell your parents and go to the doctor. i'm sure your and her parents will help you.


  • wow.. okaii im i was 17 when i had my daghter which was not long ago. take it easy and support her on whatevr choice she makes. if she wants to keep it thats her choice. dont leave her side and take responsibiliti for the baby... also tell her to do this go to department of children and familes search it on the web she can get food stamps cash assistance and also to get wic so that she gets ten cans of baby formula for the baby a month. thats what i have all i buy is diapers and cloths...this will help alot.... and just be a good father u can do it. my best frend was 14 when she had her daughter and she made it, just have faith.

    ANOTHER THING DONT LISTEN TO THOSE WHO TELL YOU TO HAVE AN ABORTION... KILLING A CHILD IS NOT AN OPTION..... she will later regret it.. and think about it they have schools for girls who are pregnant its just like high school thats where i went. i got my highschool dipolma.. its her choice if she wants an abortion you really dont have a say in the matter so even if she didnt want to and u wanted her to. she does not have to... im not trying to come off strong... just dont try to force her.. and ADOPTION!!! NO WAY!!! when you grow up do you want to live with knowing your child is out there and living with the what ifs u would have raised it... i dont think u would want that on your cociense. no one does...
    i hope i helped... email me if you would like sweet heart im here


  • For a start what are you doing having sex at your age. Do they not teach you about condoms and the pill now. You have been very stupid, and now you are moaning about paying for the baby. Maybe you should have kept it in your trousers then. You both need to go home and speak to your parents now, and decide with them where you go from here.


  • Well first your gonna need to tell your parents and see if maybe they can help you with it. I may be a tough time but you gota do it exspecially if your gonna be a Dad. Maybe work plans with your parents that they could watch the ba by and help out with it. Maybe they could watch it while your at school.

    Other is but i wouldent reccomend killing a life of a baby but abortion. I strongly dont believe in it because its a cruel murder for a baby that never had a chance of life.


    So just try to talk to your parents. Maybe get a aunt or or someone that you know to talk to them and tell them what happend. Im sure they will understand.


    Its better to tell them than to worry about it for a long time.


  • Talk to your girlfriend about it. It may not be the best decision to keep the baby. Consider your options, such as adoption, or abortion. At 13 and 14, think about what kind of life you would be able to provide this child. Also include your parents in the decision, as they would be a big part of this child's life if you keep it!


  • Have her get an abortion.


  • ummm... TELL YOU'RE PARENTS!!! don't have an abortion... you don't want to make any more terrible choices!







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